Anonymous243
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- 1y
S*x and rocd
My partner and I have not been having much s*x lately, and when it seems like something is about to happen I start to feel uncomfortable and nervous instead of excited. Is this normal?
ocdsufferer101ocdsufferer101
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- 1y
When your mind is constantly ruminating it’s very hard to get in touch to intimacy feelings, I’ve been through this and it does get better ! Try to force yourself to feel in the moment even just for a few seconds, it’ll make you feel better in the end
Anonymous243Anonymous243
- Date posted
- 1y
@ocdsufferer101 Thank you for the advice ❤️❤️ I’ll try this next time
Rissa94Rissa94
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 1y
I tend to get intrusive thoughts during intimacy I just let them pass even though I do feel bad but I know deep down inside they mean nothing and not true.
Anonymous243Anonymous243
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- 1y
@Rissa94 Thank you for the advice. I’m sorry to hear you deal with this too ❤️
AnonymousAnonymous
- Date posted
- 1y
this has been happening to me too. i’m scared to do anything because what if i have an intrusive thought when it happens? and i also deal with confession ocd so then i will have to tell him and then it would just ruin the whole moment. i don’t want to damage our relationship by always avoiding it but it’s also a terrible feeling to feel nervous now with someone i’ve been with for so so long just because of my OCD thoughts.
Anonymous243Anonymous243
- Date posted
- 1y
@Anonymous I feel the same exact way! It feels like rocd is completely ruining my relationship. You arent alone. I hope things get better ❤️
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