I'm being emotionally abuse on Facebook

For context the age of consent where I am is 18. So I was on grindr me being (16) and was going to hookup with a guy who I thought was (21). Now I know this was an incredibly dumb and illegal decision as I have dealt with the consequences of it. I was feeling so low in my life and struggling with family matters and other people my age used drinking or smoking as an out although for me I hooked up with guys as my out. At this time my anxiety disorder and ocd were at an all time high and I had no therapy sessions to help keep me stable. I also dealt with my toxic family everyday more and more. So then I hooked up with him and after we were done and chilling in his car he asked “What if I told you I wasn’t 21” and of course I’m like what the fuck (he knew I was 16 and even hearted my message of me saying that) I ask him multiple times what he meant by that and to clarify on his real age and he quoted my Bio on Grindr which was “no older than 21” inferring that he knew and lied to me about his age because of my bio limit which is disgusting. He tells me he’ll tell me his real age on two conditions, the first being I give him $7 for gas and the second I meet with him again I said yes not meaning it just to get him to answer and gave him the $7. He then told me he was 27. I was like what the fuck? you lied to me and he played innocent sarcastically “what are you talking about” you told me you were 21 and not 27 and he said “haha typo” like what the fuck. Of course after I felt absolute shit and garbage because he manipulated me into sleeping with him when he was 27 and not 21 and also extorted me for money. I feel disgusted and used with myself. I reported this to the ER and got checked there and reported it to the police after although nothing has been done and it’s been 3 weeks. I just don’t know what to consider the situation as. What would you consider it as? This caused me to go into a three day depression in which I could barely function. If I had known he was 27 I would not have slept with him or consented.

For context the age of consent where I am is 18. So I was on grindr me being (16) and was going to hookup with a guy who I thought was (21). Now I know this was an incredibly dumb and illegal decision as I have dealt with the consequences of it. I was feeling so low in my life and struggling with family matters and other people my age used drinking or smoking as an out although for me I hooked up with guys as my out. At this time my anxiety disorder and ocd were at an all time high and I had no therapy sessions to help keep me stable. I also dealt with my toxic family everyday more and more. So then I hooked up with him and after we were done and chilling in his car he asked “What if I told you I wasn’t 21” and of course I’m like what the fuck (he knew I was 16 and even hearted my message of me saying that) I ask him multiple times what he meant by that and to clarify on his real age and he quoted my Bio on Grindr which was “no older than 21” inferring that he knew and lied to me about his age because of my bio limit which is disgusting. He tells me he’ll tell me his real age on two conditions, the first being I give him $7 for gas and the second I meet with him again I said yes not meaning it just to get him to answer and gave him the $7. He then told me he was 27. I was like what the fuck? you lied to me and he played innocent sarcastically “what are you talking about” you told me you were 21 and not 27 and he said “haha typo” like what the fuck. Of course after I felt absolute shit and garbage because he manipulated me into sleeping with him when he was 27 and not 21 and also extorted me for money. I feel disgusted and used with myself. I reported this to the ER and got checked there and reported it to the police after although nothing has been done and it’s been 3 weeks. I just don’t know what to consider the situation as. What would you consider it as? This caused me to go into a three day depression in which I could barely function. If I had known he was 27 I would not have slept with him or consented.