Wanting to write a story based on my events.

Anything you write and put out there will be open to interpretation There is nothing wrong with writing your truth. Regardless of how it is interpreted. Write it without caring how others interpret it. Then read it and tailor what YOU feel you need to. It may be nothing. Your truth is your truth and if you choose to put it out there, you're also opening yourself to others and their truth. But that is theirs, never yours - and not your fault or your wrong. So write it the way it comes to you and seems true to you. As far as 1. 2. And 3. go, I think you will write in a way that adheres to those as they are already concerns in your mind. I would acknowledge those concerns, then put them away. Take a deep breath and write the story. Then change what you feel is wrong. Hopefully it is nothing. It will always be open to interpretation, any creation you make. If people have an issue with their interpretations, that is their own.

I totally get you dude. I’ve wanting to make art about this stuff too but I’m too scared of being judged. I honestly think you’re very brave for trying to do this and I respect you for it. From a writing perspective, it may be best to just present the situation without taking sides. Just show what can happen when people come in contact with this stuff, don’t attempt to justify it in the narrative but also don’t be afraid to show the pain of the person experiencing it. Try to have characters that represent a diverse set of perspectives. You could have a character who came in contact with the nsfw content but came to a completely different conclusion than the main character and see how they interact. Anyway, I hope this helps.

I think the way you approach these topics depends heavily on the story you're trying to tell. Consider how exposure to this content affects the character: Does it gradually normalize harmful ideas? Does it influence their perception of others or their own behavior? Do they eventually act on those influences, and what consequences follow? One important thing is to distinguish between explaining harmful behavior and excusing it. Mushoku Tensei, for example, is heavily criticized because its protagonist's problematic behavior isn't meaningfully addressed, even as the story attempts to portray his personal growth. This can make the narrative feel like it's normalizing or dismissing the very issues it introduces. That doesn't mean you should avoid controversial subjects. You can explore disturbing themes while making your stance clear through the characters' actions, consequences, and development. If a character does something immoral, explore the influences behind it without removing their responsibility. My advice would be to study stories that tackle similar subjects, both positively and negatively received. Pay attention to how they frame these topics, what they get right, and where they fail. Most importantly, focus on telling an honest story about your experiences and their impact, without feeling obligated to justify it nor belittle the character for turning out the way they did.