Porn use in a good relationship

I think the best thing to do is to just sit her down and tell her: “hey, I really hate to have to tell you this, but unfortunately I relapsed with porn use. It’s something that I deeply regret and I know I already apologized to you before in hopes I’d never do it again but I had a moment of weakness and I did it. I’m sorry and I was wondering if there is anything we can do together to help keep me accountable. If that sounds doable for you I would love for us to work on my healing journey together as a team.”

I have ocd and I have the fear of my bf watching porn when he has told me he has not and lying. I have the fear that he could be watching it and lying to me and I would never know. It makes me crazy thinking about it bc it makes him feel like I do not trust him but I do, it’s just a fear that keeps coming up in my head and makes it feel true. My advice is to tell her because lying never ends good and if my bf did watch it once or slipped up, I would so much rather he confess than lie.

Be honest with her. I have dealt with this at the gf. And honesty is key. Porn is a huge addiction and so many men are exposed to it at such a young age. It is a hard addiction to overcome but all that matters is u recognize it’s wrong and u are trying to do better. I would recommend getting help because sometimes u can’t beat it on ur own and that’s okay :)