- Username
- kaylaxo
- Date posted
- 20w ago
Tired (possible rocd tw)
I don’t think I’ll ever be good enough..I’ll always have issues and ocd relapses. My bf needs someone better.
- Username
- stxrmadsstxrmads
- Date posted
- 20w ago
you're not alone in feeling this, but we can do this!
- Username
- kaylaxokaylaxo
- Date posted
- 20w ago
@stxrmads Thank you. I hate that other people feel this way too but in a way I’m glad there are people who understand
- Username
- stxrmadsstxrmads
- Date posted
- 20w ago
@kaylaxo knowing there are people out there who understand exactly how I feel makes me feel less alone and gives me encouragement that I can work through this. I understand you 🫶
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- avxavx
- Date posted
- 20w ago
This definitely resonates with me, too. I've kind of found that it boils down to choice. As long as you are both safe and decent to each other (up to interpretation, but generally, physically and emotionally safe) then it's up to each partner to decide to stay or leave. In this case, you feel that your partner would be better off with someone else, but just remember that that's their choice.
- Username
- kaylaxokaylaxo
- Date posted
- 20w ago
@avx Thank you. You’re right 😊
- Username
- Amara Amara
- Date posted
- 20w ago
I know it's hard for you because of this situation with ocd but I remember you were in love if still you are don't give up because any relationship has It's own ups and downs, totally. Just remember the early days of your relationship and try to act like those days .Remember, love is a precious gift, and you are worthy and shouldn't think Your boyfriend deserves anyone else. While you both love each other, No one can fill that gap for you.
- Username
- kaylaxokaylaxo
- Date posted
- 20w ago
@Anonymous - Thank you so much ☺️
- Username
- Amara Amara
- Date posted
- 20w ago
You're welcome 🙂. I wish you the best as you want.
- Username
- vaIentinevaIentine
- Date posted
- 20w ago
i feel the same way
- Username
- kaylaxokaylaxo
- Date posted
- 20w ago
@vaIentine I’m so sorry :(
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- Crystalv18
- Date posted
- 19w ago
Rocd
I have this constant feeling of needing 100 percent certainty in my relationship of being wanted physically and sexually by him. Plus also reassurance of if he still loves me.. it’s a loop!!!
- Username
- laurfe7
- Date posted
- 18w ago
feel like giving up…
I know I love my boyfriend but I have this constant weight in my chest then I get anxious that I don’t actually love him. What can I do 😭😭 We almost broke up yesterday and I finally had some emotion to the fact of him leaving bc of my rocd. I lost it. I don’t want to lose him but I have no feelings towards him. I’m not excited, I am fearful. I’m scared. Please help me
- Username
- Iamstrong2024!
- Date posted
- 18w ago
Going through a spike
I don’t know why, but my ROCD is really loud right now. I’m obsessed with the idea of our relationship being “right”. Do I need to work on myself more before I can be in a good relationship? (My relationship is great by the way) Am I really going to commit to this person for the rest of my life? Is he holding me back? These are just a few of the questions I’m obsessed with right now. It’s so tiring and I just want to be able to enjoy my relationship for what it is. I’m feeling so sad and down. I’m trying not to search for reassurance but it’s also scary because I think “is this my OCD or is this real and true”. Any advice on how to help this. NOCD doesn’t take my insurance so I can’t go to therapy currently.
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