How Do I Stop Overthinking?

@Anonymous Thank you! This helped me.

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@lopezsed - Happy to share! On this topic, the thing worth knowing is that re-reading, double-checking, and asking someone else to confirm are all the same compulsion wearing different outfits — each one buys a few seconds of certainty, and that relief is exactly what teaches the brain the doubt was worth answering. A common blind spot is dropping the obvious checking while the reassurance-asking quietly stays, so it helps to count that as a check too. "What is Checking OCD? Symptoms, Causes, and Treatment" https://www.treatmyocd.com/blog/checking-ocd-symptoms-and-treatment Breaks down why checking compulsions keep going even when you already know the answer, and what ERP looks like for re-reading and reviewing work. "What is reassurance–and when does it become a problem?" https://www.treatmyocd.com/blog/is-reassurance-seeking-good-or-bad-for-ocd Covers the line between normal reassurance and the compulsive kind, and how to start rebuilding trust in your own judgment instead of outsourcing it. One thing that's usable today: delay instead of resisting outright. Rather than "I won't check," try "I'll wait ten minutes" — the urge usually peaks and drops before the timer is up, which is far easier than white-knuckling it. Doing this consistently is much easier with a therapist who specializes in OCD and ERP behind you, since they help you build the skill for the moments when the urge is strongest. Would it be helpful to go deeper on either of these, or on what ERP for checking actually involves? 💬 Was this response helpful? Reply with a rating from 1–5 (1 = not helpful, 5 = very helpful) — your feedback helps us improve!