- Date posted
- 28w ago
Talk therapy and counselling can be bad for you.
Who else agrees?
Who else agrees?
If it offers reassurance then yeh, it'll make ocd worse
Depends on the situation, but if you mean talk therapy for those with OCD, then yes.
I agree and disagree. Some aspects talk therapy helps. After 8 years of same treatment of talk therapy. I stepped over to hypnosis/deep meditation, mind mapping . I was in control of how deep of a hypnosis/meditation state. Healed a lot in 6 sessions than I did in 8 years. Only to have the original therapist tell me that they could do the same thing, but never even mentioned it or try different techniques for mind mapping/meditation therapy techniques. It was mind opening and blowing at the same time. Never went back to that therapist. Like Freud said “ if you do the same thing and expect a different outcome, then you’ll have to change how you do things to get a different result “ . The sessions were not helping , they were upsetting and regressive to me. I lost hope in western medicine. Hope this helps.
I did psychotherapy for 2-3 months, until I saw a Psychiatrist, got diagnosed with OCD, and then was referred to a CBT Psychologist. The psychotherapy/talk therapy I was getting had its positives. It helped make me find out some more about myself. Helped me identify some trauma. And was good just to have someone to talk to. The problem with it (especially cause I hadnt yet been diagnosed with OCD) was that my therapist often tried to find a reason for everything. Any intrusive thought I had, my therapist would try find a reason for it. This is obviously not good for OCD. I have nothing against talk therapy, and my therapist was otherwise good, just wasn't really right for my OCD. But everyone is different
I am really scared of being a narcissist.. I’ve been in therapy and I feel like my therapist isn’t taking it seriously:( like if I am a narcissist I want to work on it I’m just really scared of harming people.. including my partner:( I don’t want be the reason he needs therapy and I don’t want to ruin his life. I’m scared I’m manipulating him somehow to want to be with me and I just don’t know what to do. I NEED to get this fixed before our relationship progresses but I just feel like I’m not being heard by therapists/psychiatrists We want to get married and have children but I don’t even know if I will be a good partner or mom. If I do have narcissism I just think it would be best if I left him alone :( I don’t know what to do I know that people will say that narcissists don’t care about hurting other people or things like that but I just don’t know how true that is. I also have really mean judgmental, cruel, and hateful thoughts about people and I feel like that means I’m a narcissist
I tried contacting NOCD, but they said that they didn't accept my insurance, and even if they did, I'd have to provide co-payment. I felt devastated because I'm afraid of going to a therapist who will misunderstand me. I can't afford therapy at the moment but I might be able to in a few months. Are there any alternatives for self therapy?
So you got to ask me anything… Now I’d like to ask you something! I’ve heard from Members that they were so scared coming to their first ERP session. They were terrified that I would think they were crazy, that I would tell them their worst fears were true. That I would confirm they are some form of a terrible person or have them hauled off to prison for their thoughts. I’ve also had Members share how they’re very scared to begin ERP treatment because they’ve researched enough to know it means facing the fear, without the compulsions that have kept them feeling safe (but not really safe) this entire time. They struggled to see how they could be capable of doing this, while simultaneously acknowledging that they did not want to live like this anymore. If you have had your first session, what were your thoughts before? Did you have any hesitations or fears going into it? How did it turn out? If you haven’t yet begun to work with an ERP specialist, what is holding you back?
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