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Any advice for intrusive sexually harming thoughts? I feel like a monster
Any advice for intrusive sexually harming thoughts? I feel like a monster
Stay in the uncertainty and be uncomfortable for as long as you can without doing something to make you feel better , trying to figure it out will always cause my thoughts/images in your mind
More * and yea , once you start to feel mad or sad or any emotion to the thoughts it’s sort of like trying to figure it out . Try to be kind to yourself . Soon as you don’t try to figure it out you won’t get rid of the thoughts but less will pop up . It’ll take lots of time to have the thoughts subside . Change your attitude about them and give less energy no matter how bad you feel like you have to fight them and they’ll change 😉
Thanks
Accept the presence of those thoughts, not the actual content of them. Just observe them like a cloud passing by and use non-engagement responses when you feel like ruminating or doing other compulsions.
Thank you ! Its hard though
Yeah I realised that trying to figure it out is making it way worsw
worse
I need advice for intrusive thoughts. I used to feel like I could handle them. They weren’t nearly as bad as the things that related to my actual life. But now, I’m suffering. I haven’t had a sexual experience in over a year that didn’t involve constant intrusive thoughts. Most are somehow related to kids and I keep chasing off the thoughts but it’s so bad. I know you’re supposed to ignore them but I don’t know how I can just ignore that and continue what I’m doing. But they’re coming on stronger. I had one earlier I could not get rid of just as things finished so the thought came on strongly just before my orgasm hit and now I feel absolutely disgusting. I hated the thought and I know it’s not me and it was not enjoyable but it still feels like I was getting off to it. I feel sick. I’m so fucking tired of these thoughts. They’re in my every day life too and it’s all the time. I just want it to stop but ignoring it feels so wrong. What should I do?
I’m a csa survivor which made me develop hypersexuality while actually being a asexual individual. (Where I did CP and talked to groomers and sexted, ect ect) A few months ago I’ve started to heal, but the fact that I’ve seen so many private parts since I was idk, young? I imagine them everywhere, it’s really frustrating and sometimes I also get intrusive thoughts about other kids or my siblings. It’s deeply distributing but I also kind of think of it from a curious kind of aspect which I despise too. Honestly I have a hard time with any kid in underwear, my intrusive thoughts have been ALOT the last months and they’re really really overwhelming. I also easily go into overanalysing them or even trying to figure out more clearer the thoughts to “test myself”. I think, I hope. Idk it’s scary
I been dealing with intrusive to the point it feels like I think them idk what to do I feel like a monster.
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