star1232
- Date posted
- 35w ago
Tired
Iam just scared and tired from having wetness to the same sex thoughts and feelings , i am so scared
Alice1837Alice1837
- Date posted
- 35w ago
I don't know what you're sexual orientation is but in the lesbian master doc, they say that basically what matters isn't whether or not you feel attracted to a certain gender. If being with a man/a woman doesn't feel right to you then you simply don't have to be. True attraction feels good, warm and safe and if the thoughts you keep getting makes you feel upset and sick then don't worry that is not attraction 😭
lizaaalizaaa
- Date posted
- 35w ago
Thank you for that btw cuz I had some thoughts about my sex orientation too 😭,but I was talking about sexual thoughts generally
Alice1837Alice1837
- Date posted
- 35w ago
There are many reasons to feel aroused and your brain can actually trick you into thinking that you are even though it isn't actually real. Hope that helps :-)
OcdmenaceOcdmenace
- Date posted
- 35w ago
Thank for ur comment.
lizaaalizaaa
- Date posted
- 35w ago
I understand you,I have this but with butterflies in your stomach,sometimes I think it has happened and idk
star1232star1232
- Date posted
- 35w ago
@lizaaa Yes with everything
AnonymousAnonymous
- Date posted
- 35w ago
This might be uncomfortable at first, but I can tell you what is helping me. When you think you’re about to have an intrusive thought, before it even occurs, purposefully have the thought. Not only that, but exaggerate it, make it even more graphic or disturbing than your original thought. It’s kind of like you’re beating you’re intrusive thoughts at their own game. If you try not to have the thought then you probably will, but if you show your mind that not only do you not care, but you’ll have the thoughts on purpose, then the anxiety can’t even keep up. That’s what has worked for me anyway. It was recommended to us in group and my intrusive thoughts have gone down. It may not work for everyone, so if you aren’t comfortable doing this or you try it and it makes you more anxious then you don’t have to use it.
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- Date posted
- 14w ago
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- Date posted
- 8w ago
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