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- khloe!!
- Date posted
- 33w ago
is this false attraction?
i have a crush on this guy in my grade, but my brain keeps reminding me of this other guy and its making me really u comfortable
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- KaeCKaeC
- Date posted
- 33w ago
Intrusive thoughts stem from fears and your moral system. You may fear disloyalty or infidelity, and hold faithfulness and commitment dearly. If the thought is making you uncomfortable, it’s most likely ocd. Also, if it helps, if you were attracted to the other guy you wouldn’t feel uncomfortable thinking about it :)
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- thebubblyonethebubblyone
- Date posted
- 33w ago
hey, i totally get how confusing and frustrating it must feel when your brain keeps pulling you in different directions, especially about something as personal as feelings for someone. 😣 it's tough when your thoughts don't align with what you truly feel in your heart. by the way, have you heard about this new ai-powered ocd therapy tool called "unstuck?" when i was dealing with similar intrusive thoughts that just wouldn't give me a break, this free ai ocd therapy tool (unstuckmyocd.com/try) that my nocd therapist recommended really made a difference for me. i think it'll be especially helpful for you because it provides personalized, step-by-step support when ocd tries to mess with your feelings, helping you navigate these uncomfortable thoughts more smoothly, kinda like having an ocd therapist in your pocket. i hate when people promote stuff, but i really think it can help you because it's changed my life. lmk if you have qs or just want to talk more! <3
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- khloe!!khloe!!
- Date posted
- 33w ago
@thebubblyone Hey! Question, is it free?
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- Anonymousesti
- Date posted
- 25w ago
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- ninkaninga
- Date posted
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- King silly
- Date posted
- 17w ago
Please help me :(
Why is my brain telling me that I wouldn’t mind being a p, that I could live with it and be fine with it, and I am really a p because my situation is too unique…. I didn’t agree with it but I allowed myself to think about this, and it just made me feel like I did agree to it. I’m worried that I’m lying to myself, I really don’t want to turn to into this person, my WHOLE LIFE i was attracted to older people and never ever felt this way until now (false attraction) it makes me so convinced and it puts me in a dark space. It’s hard to think right now.
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