SilentlyBattling
- Date posted
- 1y ago
Question for other HOCD/SO-OCD sufferers
I put in a trigger warning, have others done things such as “am I gay” quizzes or tests on the internet? If so, how did you stop?
ViiiViii
- Date posted
- 1y ago
I completely relate. I used to do so many tests from every website (from more specific to OCD and mental health to buzzfeed tests). It did not matter that the test told me that I had HOCD or confirmed my sexual orientation, I had to repeat it because my brain was saying that I was cheating on the test and it was not true. Try to restrain from doing them. It doesn’t really matter the results, your brain will always tell you that you are lying
ZoroarcanineZoroarcanine
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 1y ago
For me, it was coming to the realization that no matter what any of the test said and my brain would just ask what if it’s wrong, or something along those lines. The tests were just a compulsion and no matter how many times I was told this is most likely HOCD, I couldn’t go on with my day. Even now as I’m doing much better than I was at my lowest point, I still have that urge to do a test or look something up to make sure, but I know giving in won’t help the situation and will only make it worse in the long run
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Mt2019
- Date posted
- 11w ago
Question about HOCD
Sorry long post. Anyone feel like now they’re just in extreme denial. Like when I was little I noticed guys more than girls in movies and was more drawn to them. I remember changing my mindset to switch that. 98%of my life has been straight until recently. I felt drawn to some guys but never thought of it sexually. Always had girl crushes dreams and porn. Now I watch porn and I feel like straight takes longer and then I go and watch gay porn and feel nothing until I tell myself it’s two attractive dudes and love is love and imagine physical sensations and then it hits like suddenly. Like I have to convince myself it’s alright. Then when I try again I can do all that but feel nothing and then straight porn works. Idk if it’s just getting a fix or the first time works with anything or what but it’s confusing. On top of that I’ve felt girl relationships including my wife maybe miss something and a guy maybe matches that feeling that but then I feel like I’d be missing something without a girl or my wife. Idk I’ve had some rough times in life with male figures in my life but idk. I feel like I have to convince myself more and more that I’m straight even more than the first time I dealt with this. Can someone relate? Please
Luke_McElwee
- Date posted
- 10w ago
HOCD question
Anyone else with HOCD get thoughts of like "people in denial try to distract themselves" or anything along those lines when just trying to move on from the thoughts. Having a pretty bad episode this morning at least anxiety wise.
geodrimilis
- Date posted
- 7w ago
How to counter hocd (in my opinion)
Think logically. Literally. Take me as an example. I have hocd and my obsession is “what if I’m gay”. I’ve liked girls my whole life, I can still get aroused by them and I can’t get the same instinctive reaction from a guy. So I can’t be gay. Sometimes ocd will go to something else once you prove it wrong. Maybe like. “What if I’m bi” again I can only get aroused by girls. Sometimes when I’m not thinking about it I can even get aroused when sitting next to a girl or when I’m sitting next to one or even when I’m touching one in a non sexual way. Something that never happens or has happened with a guy in my life. Don’t start panicking. Just “realise” who you are and who you’ve been.
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