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Sad feelings around my loved ones… please help!
I keep getting sad out of the blue… when im around my loved ones… really sad sometimes… i don’t know why… hate it
I keep getting sad out of the blue… when im around my loved ones… really sad sometimes… i don’t know why… hate it
Totally get it, we often get those feelings when we care too much about our loved ones and their wellbeing, there’s absolutely nothing wrong in that. We need to understand that we often cannot control how we feel especially when OCD stands in the way, feelings due to OCD are just largely automatic, and they come and go without we willingly having control over them, understanding that feelings and thoughts are not always rational, and feelings are not “facts” can help a bit to keep things in perspective in the long run, hope it helps somewhat!
@UH52 But why do i get so saaad without knowing why.. and always when i should be happy around my loved ones
@Strugglezz Yeah I can definitely relate too, mostly it might be because we care for their wellbeing too much, like for me personally getting to a point having severe separation anxieties when my loved ones go out, so for you also maybe it might be due to the immense care and love we have towards them, so we might get consumed in the moment we are with them thus indirectly paving way for OCD thoughts to flood in!
I’ve been feeling the same lately. Pretty sure its depression. I’ve never had lows like I’ve recently experienced. You’re not alone . Hope you feel better soon
I usually would say I’ve never been depressed , but recently in my life since my anxiety/ocd has been so bad and having relationship problems I’m feeling kinda sad / stressed. I keep getting scared of being depressed I keep having intrusive thoughts of “ you’d would be better off if you weren’t living” “ I don’t wanna live if it’s like this” and it’s just scaring me 😞
I feel like I shouldn’t be with my partner anymore, but I have no clear reason why. I feel sad every single day, I have a constant heaviness in my chest, I cry often, and I start arguments with him. I can’t remember the good memories. Everything feels distant, fake, or tainted. I don’t know why I love him — and all my thoughts tell me that I never truly did, that I only wanted to feel something, and now I finally see the truth. The worst part is that it all feels so real. I feel lost. I feel numb. I feel guilty. I can’t feel love right now, but some part of me still wants to hold on, still wants help. I don’t want to make any decisions right now. I just want to know I’m not alone. Has anyone else gone through this?
Help please? I just feel idk..help ..
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