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“I want to meet someone who makes me feel like music does.” - Lee Felix of Stray Kids I 100% agree with Felix on this, but I am afraid that no one will make feel like music does. Completely and wholly accepted and loved. My friends do but that’s different. I love my friends don’t get me wrong but I want someone who will hold me, give me his sweater and comfort me when I am scared, like music does. I am only 13 so I shouldn’t be worried about these things yet but I just wonder, at a point when you realize that every single girl at your school looks better than you, what should you do? I don’t like the at I look but if I say that my mom will just tell me off about how that’s silly and I’m making it a big deal. I just don’t know what to do, I wish someone would find me funny and sweet, someone who I would not have to put on a mask for. I hear about girls my age having boyfriends and I mostly think that’s stupid because none of the boys my age are mature whatsoever so they will dump a girl in a heartbeat. Yesterday I was talking with my teacher casually and she was comparing me with this guy in my class, Grifin. She was talking about how we are both smart but I am more emotionally smart and he is booksmart, she said that I am booksmart too but I am capable of social interaction and he isn’t. The funny thing is that she isn’t wrong. 😂 And I took that as a compliment, she said that if someone has a social issue she sends them to me to ask what they should do, she said that I am just naturally good at it which I take as a huge compliment. It’s just that if I am so socially smart wouldn’t someone find me attractive? No one has ever liked me as far as I know of and I feel bad for wanting someone to like me but I just want to feel what it’s like. Middle school has a Winter Formal this year and I want someone to ask me to it but at the same time I don’t because I wouldn’t know what to do, it would be so awkward. Well I need to get to sleep but if anyone has any advice please tell me. Thank you

Tea and Honey

Date posted: Yesterday

First of all, you are really smart, and thoughtful. I can see it. And this will serve you well in the future. :) And second of all, don't worry!! I can tell you that there is a guy out there to match every girl:):):) I didn't feel like I measured up in high school. I was a soccer a player. I was (and am) stocky and muscular. I always felt like being pretty was a game that I was playing--and losing. But you know what? When I met my husband, he thought I was beautiful. And now, many years later, he still does!!!! There could be a million women better than me in one way or another, but in my husband's eyes, I'm the best. :):):) You are still really young. You are right that the kids your age aren't really worth dating because they really aren't mature yet. But over the years, there will be someone out there who loves YOU. You might have to wait a long time. But you can find that guy who gives you his sweater. And when you love one another, the other person will always be the best in each other's eyes:):) Just be patient and enjoy life along the way :):)

💜Cinderella💜

Date posted: Yesterday

@Tea and Honey Thank you, I needed this

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