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Brain is saying do it
My brain is saying I shouldn’t watch a movie and I should harm my family
My brain is saying I shouldn’t watch a movie and I should harm my family
From my therapist, very helpful 1. Acknowledge the Intrusive Thought Objective: Recognize and identify intrusive thoughts without attempting to suppress or ignore them. Process: When an intrusive thought occurs, pause and consciously acknowledge its presence. This step involves labeling the thought as an OCD or anxiety symptom rather than a meaningful or urgent reality. It’s about noticing and describing the thought: "I am having the thought that..." Rationale: By acknowledging the thought, you reduce its power to induce immediate reactive distress. It becomes something you observe, not something that controls you. Am I doing the thinking, or is the thinking doing me? 2. Accept the Uncertainty Objective: Cultivate a willingness to tolerate the discomfort that comes with uncertainty. Process: Accept that the intrusive thought brings uncertainty and that it's impossible to achieve complete certainty or to fully control thoughts. This step involves letting go of the struggle to find certainty or to solve the thought. Rationale: Acceptance doesn’t mean liking, wanting, or agreeing with the intrusive thought. Instead, it means allowing the uncertainty to be there without continuously engaging with or contesting it. This reduces the struggle with the thought, which is often what maintains or intensifies anxiety/OCD symptoms. 3. Action: Staying Present Objective: Redirect attention from the intrusive thoughts to the present moment. Process: Engage in a grounding activity or mindfulness practice that helps bring focus back to the here and now, instead of getting tangled in the thoughts. This could involve focusing on your breath, noticing sensory experiences, or engaging in a task at hand. Rationale: Action through staying present helps break the cycle of rumination and anxiety. It shifts focus from hypothetical worries or compulsive mental rituals back to what is actually happening in your life at the moment.
Do you deep down want to hurt your family? No. I don’t think so. Why else would you be on here panicking so much. Please talk to a professional within ocd
My harm OCD makes me worry I want to hurt my fiancée 😔
@Hopefuledward46 I’m sorry ur dealing with that
@ocdsuxxx It sucks it’s like “ do it” “ you want to” but I know I don’t. I love him and he’s my best friend. I’m also not a violent person. But it keeps nagging me. I hate it. Stupid brain. It makes no sense.
@Hopefuledward46 SAME my brain keeps telling me to go do it instead of watching TikTok :( it feels like I’m gunna
@ocdsuxxx But we won’t. Because we are stronger and our brain. It’s doesn’t tell us what to do. We tell it! We love and would never hurt them.
@Hopefuledward46 It feels like im listening to the brain and im gunna do it tho im so stressed how do u cope when it feels so real like ur gunna do it ?
@Hopefuledward46 Also feels like I can’t watch a show and act normal cus I’m gunna do it like Brian is telling me in gunna
@Hopefuledward46 Idk why it has to feel like im gunna do it and telling me i will and my brain says yes
@ocdsuxxx I talk to it like I’m confronting a bully.
Talk to a therapist. They’re so much better at understanding these things than anyone on this app is. Please seak professional help. It’s not far one you my friend feeling so stressed due to these thoughts/erges
I fight it and tell my thoughts you are just thoughts and have no real power over me and will the feelings and fear to go away
@Hopefuledward46 My brain keeps telling me I’m gunna grab the knife when I go downstairs for dinner with my dad …. It feels like im gunna do it and I’m just “ holding back” if I don’t UGH I’m losing it
@Hopefuledward46 I just got food and a knife was placed in front of my I’m like is this a sign to do it … it felt like I was about to act on it almost ugh and I had to walk away
@ocdsuxxx Are you ok?
@Someone99 No :( it feels like IM gunna act on it idk why it feels like this I don’t get ocd it’s fcked up
@ocdsuxxx It is! And it's really difficult to snap out of it because it's our brain. Lol. But it's possible. When my intrusive thoughts are at their worst, it's like really loud voices in my head...
Hey i was struggling eith this like a month ago and i got a bit better from this thought it actually is so scary cause i would get visions of me doing it but i never did anything like that what i did was watch timtok and talk to someone i trust abt it like my cousin and after i was a little okay i would talk to a friend to calm myself down i was scared i would do something at night even if i knew i didnt want to i would just try to take a nap and i ended up talking to my mom abt it and she understood atleast a little and i felt better about it but i promise your thoughts arent u even if it feels like it in the moment, im sorry your going through this right now and i hope that thought gets better:( 💕
@jamba27 Thank u Love ! I just hate how it feels like I’m gunna go act on it especially when I’m around a knife it feels like I’m gunna grab it and do it and I hold back :(
@ocdsuxxx Yea that feeling is so stressful ik but with ocd it like attacks what u care abt most iykwim but it also gives u urges like u can physically feel it and its a pain ive cried over it before and it truly is a process to make those thoughts get better
@jamba27 How do u cope when it feels so real like right now my brains tells me I would kill a small animal cus it’s small and insignificant like wth
@ocdsuxxx I look up stuff like of people that could relate and it helps me aleast to know im not alone
@jamba27 we’re on this together
@ocdsuxxx Yes 💕
I’m having a very bad evening with my intrusive thoughts. I was doing really good dealing with them but tonight one hit me hard. I’ve been having a lot of different intrusive thoughts but I’ll have one occasionally about hurting my mom or my dog who I love and they’re the only family I have in my life. They’re my world. I was helping my mom put away the dishes and I had the big kitchen knife in my hand and my intrusive thought was you could stab your mom. And then my brain said I had a twitch in my hand and that meant I wanted to do it. Let me just say that I wouldn’t hurt a fly. I actually caught a fly in a glass and put it outside instead of killing it this evening before this intrusive thought happened. I’m such a gentle and compassionate and caring person and these thoughts instantly cause me to have a panic attack. And I have no one to talk to them about. I know they’re hard for my mom to hear and I don’t want to be any more of a burden than I already am. I do desperately want to tell her and have her reassure me that I’m not crazy or a psycho. Then my thoughts wander to if your hand did flinch could you be a psychopath. Is hurting someone in you. I know it’s not but I feel like my mind is out to get me and hurt me. I’m working so hard and I thought I was doing so good but I need to know why I have these thoughts. They’re not ok. I need someone to help me make sense of why. I know we aren’t supposed to ruminate but I shouldn’t have thoughts like this about people I love and care about the most in the world.
There are times my harm ocd has me convinced that my feelings of self harm or suicide and harm are real and that any moment I could commit the act on myself or my family. Is there anyone who can chime in on this. I feel like all the time I want to leave run away or avoid my family because of these thoughts. Like I shouldn’t be around my children and I don’t trust myself.
I love horror movies and would watch them random sometimes even Terrifier cause art is my new favorite character. I just felt like I was a bad person for this⁉️ I don’t support his actions but I like his goofy faces he makes. I can’t enjoy anything no more Literally me rn in life
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