Any Christians on here?

@User17annon Any struggle with rocd ?

@EmmaGrace27 I struggle with real event and false memory ocd also past mistakes that involve my spouse.

@User17annon 🙏🏻I struggle with feeling attracted sometimes and there are things I don’t like or thinking that I don’t like this about him I can find a better attractive guy that I should and that I’m settling for less even though God has given me everything literally I could want in a man

@Someone99 Any struggle with rocd ?

@Someone99 100%

@Someone99 I’ve never met a man that loved Jesus more than he does he’s so disciplined

@Someone99 I feel bad bc I don’t wanna leave him for that. 1 Samuel 16:7 says the lord looks at the heart and I feel bad for people saying if you don’t like his looks that much your settling etc blah blah. Like I can’t just go on to find a good looking man and him change, I can’t expect Josh not to change. I initially fell in love with who he is

@Someone99 Most definitely. So do you think it’s ok to say yes he’s not my type necessarily but everything I could ever want in a guy and given by God. He and I connect like no one else, and I choose to accept the things I don’t like as I can’t necessarily change them b I can encourage working out together

@Someone99 Aw that’s awesome! How do you handle it when you don’t feel love or attraction physically tho? I feel like I freak out lol

@Someone99 I think so too I think it’ll increase like it did before we started dating bc when we met I didn’t find him physically attractive at all now it’s like I pick at things I don’t like but I think it’s totally fine to accept them as IS. Like I accept yes I wish I had a more attractive guy and I wish he had certain features but I can accept that he has flaws I have flaws I can’t fix all of them and God doesn’t see that he sees us the same he sees the heart. Satan is kinda whispering in my ear to say did God really say that the heart matters most? Looking for a guy just bc he’s better looking is deceiving. Just because I wand that doesn’t mean I’ll be “happy” and the point is transmigration. I’d I kinda have to force myself to focus on the positive and almost force love into serving him, not myself

@Someone99 I want him to be my all and that is going to take me to not look for things to dislike or find flaws in to force myself to focus on what matters

@Someone99 Do you think it’s a reason to break up that I may not like how he physically looks sometimes or his tummy? Like attraction can grow with emotional connection I think

@Someone99 I would feel AWFUL it’s not a good reason

@Someone99 You are totally right. I need to change my perspective I’m just tryna learn to accept that sometimes I don’t feel the same way like emotionally or love wise. And to accept his imperfections and idek how lol especially with kid

@EmmaGrace27 ocd*

@56Heal78 Do you ever struggle with attraction?

@56Heal78 How did you get past it? How can I accept his flaws or things I don’t like without feeling like I’m “settling” scriptural I’m not settling

@56Heal78 My Facebook is my first middle and last name Percifull with my profile pic

@EmmaGrace27 Shouldn’t be hard to find me

@EmmaGrace27 I’m trying to find you

@EmmaGrace27 I*

@Someone99 Ohh I see

@Someone99 Oh this is cleaver