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- 26w
Reading things over and over
Does anyone else read books, texts, emails or any form of text over and over or start again because a word wasn’t “right” if you don’t something bad will happen?
Does anyone else read books, texts, emails or any form of text over and over or start again because a word wasn’t “right” if you don’t something bad will happen?
Hello, Thank you for sharing this symptom of OCD. I know it is aggravating and I am sorry that you are going through this. An effective way to combat this is through Exposure Response Prevention (ERP). This technique will involve starting with reading things that are low stakes, such as a short article from Sports Illustrated, and eventually getting to more challenging things such as an important work related email. You will begin by choosing to read something that you view as unimportant, and then read it ONCE without going back to reread anything from the article. You will initially feel anxiety and a strong urge to reread it as you are concerned that you misread or misunderstood something. You will sit with this anxiety, embrace it, and then eventually it will decrease and your urge to reread will lessen. After practicing this with items you view as unimportant, you will get better at reading these pieces without having an urge to read them a second time. Then you will progress to reading things that you view as more important, such as an email or text from a friend/family member. You will practice reading these only once and embracing the intrusive thoughts that will come, such as, maybe you skipped a critical part of the message and thus you will be unable to help your friend/family member. As with the first step, the anxiety will exist, but eventually, will decrease if you do not give in to the compulsion to reread it. By practicing this many times you will improve and be able to read these pieces much more quickly and with less anxiety. Lastly, you will advance to doing this same exposure and response prevention with things that you view as truly important, such as messages about upcoming medical procedures or important work projects. You will then practice reading these things once and fight off the subsequent anxiety brought on by the urge to reread them. Once you master this you will be able to read in a more relaxed manner which will allow you to open a book, newspaper, email, or text with a sense of joy instead of dread.
Yes! I do this from overthinking, not necessarily that something bad will happen but that I’ll be judged or look stupid
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yeah i do this too. i think this can be a symptom of perfectionism ocd from what i remember
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I think so too
Yes!
does anyone read something about someone else’s issue and be scared it will start becoming an issue for them too?
Does anybody else experience OCD while reading? I feel like i need to remember everything in my book. And i have a feel that i need to completely understand EVEYTHING in my book (even very minor things) and if not, i feel as though im cheating or that the minor thing is very significant and that ill want to remember it even way after i finish the book (just for the purpose of knowing EVERYTHING about my book) Also, when a character says some minor things i feel the need to understand it completely or i feel the fear that i didn’t understand what the character actually meant. If youve struggled with this please give tips on how to overcome it
Do yall ever reread old texts from a toxic ex and try and “solve” stuff constantly? We ended things 4 months ago and every day I go through old texts trying to prove I wasn’t the bad one, make SURE she was toxic, “solve” a random toxic moment I remember and make sure I have ALL the details remembered accurately and that I’m not misremembering it. It’s like im still living in the relationship. It’s draining and will not stop. Is this an OCD thing? How is it fixed?
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